Fashion for the Mothers

When it comes to choosing the mother of the bride's and groom's attire for the wedding, this can be a touchy subject. You want them to wear one thing and they may want to wear something completely different. The best way to handle this is compromise. Let the mothers be themselves but guide their choice with a color palette or choice of style. It’s your day but they have to be comfortable with their attire as well. The best way to find the right dress is communication. If you have a certain color in mind, let them know upfront. Don’t wait until they go shopping to hit them with this news. Also ask the mothers what they had in mind and share your ideas as well. You are bound to come up with something you both like. Dress shopping can be a fun day of mother and daughter time or a good time to get to know your future mother in law a little better. Go shopping, have a nice lunch and most importantly, have fun with it. Here are some mother of the bride and groom dresses I love and I hope you love them to!

I couldn't resist posting this picture. I thought this would be the perfect dress for that sassy, fashionista mother!! I know some are totally against black for weddings but this dress is so beautiful! (photos 1-7 are courtesy of Nordstrom, photo 8 courtesy of Real Talk of NY)

Happy Planning & Happy Mother's Day!!

Deniesha Joseph
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This Isn’t Your Mother’s Bridal Shower!!

(photo courtesy of betterhomesandgardens)

For today’s chic and fabulous bride, the traditional bridal shower just won’t cut it. In 2009, we are Prada purse carrying, blackberry having, internet savvy, super stylish women. Break free from the tradition and throw your friend an updated bridal shower she will never forget. When planning the bridetobe’s bridal shower, you should base the theme on her personality. Think of her favorite things from her past and present. Keep her personality in mind at all times and makes sure it shows throughout the shower. Is she a martini drinker? Doe she love shoes? What her favorite food? What’s her favorite movie? What does she love to do on a Saturday? These simple questions can help you with the direction of the shower theme. As the legendary Colin Cowie once said, “Love is in the details darlin”. Of course the traditional aspects of a shower can still be incorporated. The shower games and opening of the gifts are still the crowd’s favorite. Even if she's a traditional gal that wears pearls, you can still add a modern spin to it. By adding her personality, this gives the shower a more personal feeling and makes it unique from the traditional shower. Whatever you do just make sure it’s a shower the bride will always remember.

Most Popular Shower Themes

The Spa Theme - Host the shower at a spa or have the spa come to you for mani, pedi and back rubs.

The Sunday Brunch Theme - Have a Sunday Brunch at her favorite restaurant and have the guest wear hats.

The Martini Theme - Host a martini party with speciality cocktails with oversized martini glasses for the decor.

Unisex Bridal Shower - Invite the guys and make it a great party for the couple.

Happy Planning,

Deniesha Joseph
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Ask The Planner - Cocktails or Mocktails?

Q: My fiancé and I are Christians and we do not drink alcohol at all. Most of our guests are Christians as well but some of our guests do drink socially. We do not wish to serve alcohol for our reception. All of our friends and family know we don’t drink so I think they will be fine with a non alcoholic reception. I want to serve non alcholic versions of popular drinks like daquiries and pina colodas but a couple of my friends are telling me to serve some alcohol. Also I don’t want my guest drinking and driving. Is this a good idea or will my guest be disappointed?

Thanks,

Soon to be Mrs. Browne

A: Well first congratulations on your engagement and I hope the planning process is going well. Your friends and family do respect your beliefs but you have to respect their choice as well. I’m sure when they visit your home; they do not expect to have a glass of wine. However this is not a small gathering of family and friends, this is the biggest party you will ever have. People do enjoy having cocktails at a wedding and they look forward to it. I think it’s best to serve wine and beer at the least. This will accommodate your guests that do drink. Your idea of coming up with non alcoholic cocktails is a great idea. Many frozen drinks can be done in a non alcoholic version, like pina colodas and daiquiris. Also, consider the time of day your wedding is taking place. If you’re having an evening wedding, there is an anticipation of alcoholic beverages. You may want to consider an early afternoon wedding. I think this will best suite the type of wedding you are having and people usually drink less early in the day. If you are still not convinced, think of it like this; if you were attending a wedding and the bride was a vegetarian, would you expect a vegetarian meal? Probably not right? It’s the same situation just a different element. I hope I was able to help you solve your planning dilemma.

Happy Planning,

Deniesha Joseph
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White Wedding Inspiration Board

White wedding are a classic choice for your wedding décor. White can transformed into any mood you are want your wedding to be. If you want modern, classic or whimsical, you can achieve your look of choice with white. White is perfect for winter, spring or summer weddings. You go with all white or a white with a splash of color. Whatever you choose, a white wedding is always beautiful. I hope you enjoy my white wedding inspiration board.

(all photos are courtesy of the theknot.com)

Happy Planning,

Deniesha Joseph
Couture Events by D
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http://www.coutureventsbyd.com/
718.938.4713